I have been in the dating game for a very long time, I have seen how people react and change to different situations, every person is different in a unique way and every person is the same other ways. for me I found that when I went out on a date, I screwtinized every single thing about the person in front of me, I analyzed there hair, there teeth, cloths, the way they spoke, what there posture was, if they ordered an expensive drink, a cheap meal, how they talked, what they talked about, how they looked at me…I could make this go on for pages and pages.

I have had very successful relationships meeting and enjoying the company of truly amazing people but it always felt like something was missing, talking to other males in the dating game they had the same response, its like the next person I went out with wasn’t good enough, after years of feeling this way I realised one day that it was me with the problem, I was trying to use others to fill that void in my life, like a dog chasing it’s tail that it will never catch.

I guess my point is whether you have been dating for a while now or you are just about to get back into the dating game try to take everything as it comes in a positive way, Give that person in front of you a little space for error and you will find the two of you will have a much more enjoyable experience, approach dating with an open mind, If everyone was the same, had the same likes and dislikes, this world would be a very boring place.

Just because someone is different then you in a way you do not understand does not mean they are weird or wrong for being that way, If you can create this kind of mind set male or female there will be much more success in your dating.